Yesterday I went to PP (Plan
Parenthood) for my first time. We had to be there by 7:30 am as the clinic
opens really early to do abortions. When I arrived at Bleecker Street I was
surprised as the clinic was a whole building of around 7 to 10 floors. Although
the clinic does not only make abortions, most of the profits of the business
come due to them
But the subject of today’s post is
the man of the green T-shirt. He arrived at 9:15 am on a 4x4 Ford with a woman.
She went in and he stayed out as PP’s policy does not allow partners to come
in. He was wandering around his car and PP’s door; it seemed that he could
barely conceal his nerves. From time to time I met his eyes, which only
transmitted sadness. I decided to walk towards him with decision and I gave him
one of the newspapers I was giving out. I took advantage of the moment to start a conversation about abortion.
On the one hand he was against
abortion and he told me that any women should have one as it is really hard. On
the other hand her girlfriend was inside. I told him that he was acting in an
incoherent way an assertion that he did not reject. He was then conscious that
he was not acting the way he thought but he was justifying himself that abortion
was the best decision for him and her girlfriend. I tried to explain him that
abortion is never a good alternative and that we could help them with whatever
they needed. The longer I spoke to him the quicker his arguments were losing
weight.
Although he did not go inside the
building and take his girlfriend out, I am sure he went home and thought about
everything we had talked about in our conversation, which included many issues
as we had been talking almost for an hour. I finally had to leave and he was
still standing next to his car waiting for her girlfriend to go out. I said goodbye to him and he told me: “you
guys are doing a great job”. Hope he changes his mind for a future!
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