Last weekend,
some of us had the chance to go to the NSCSconferences
in Minneapolis. We were very lucky to be there. We had the opportunity to get
some training on sidewalk counseling. Despite I think the best way to learn is
by experience, listening to those presenters in their lectures was good for us.
Interns and whoever does sidewalk counseling, we do not have to be shy or
scared. We need to have strength and trust in ourselves. Sometimes we may think
that we won’t have the best or the correct words for all these women. However,
God is with us in all those moments. HE
will give us the best speech or the best words to tell them. It seems that this
advice sounds very typical, but it’s totally true. After more than two weeks,
I’ve seen that I’m not alone in this. I can always count on HIM.
There was this
pastor called Walter Hoye. He told us
about Stephanie Spidell and her
daughter Khya. Here there is a short
biography of Stephanie:
I'm a single mother of six children,
including a special needs daughter named Khya, who was given an
"incompatible with life" diagnosis of Alobar Holoprosencephaly, which
means Khya's brain did not develop normally early in my pregnancy. She was not
expected to survive the pregnancy. If she did survive the delivery, doctors
predicted she may only live a few minutes or hours, six months at most. Khya is
now almost two years old. The medical community heavily pressured me to have a
late-term abortion, to end my child's life to "put her out of her
misery". They said I would be traumatized if I saw her, but we loved Khya
unconditionally and would cherish anytime we had with her. I'm very blessed and
honored to be Khya's Mom. Along with my other five children, we are Khya's
full-time caregivers and we want to share her story so that people will
understand that all life is precious! What the world sees as
"imperfect" or a "mistake", we see as our much loved little
sister and daughter. Khya has taught us so much about faith, hope, and love. I
thank God for picking me to be her mom.
You can watch
the video by going to this link. It's beautiful.
with us. I used to live with them two years ago. When I told them that I’d be in town for three days, they
offered their house for the ten of us. Isn’t that nice? They also prepared an American breakfast on Saturday
morning which was delicious! We all want to say THANK YOU again for your kindness, and… see you soon!
You can see the ten of us enjoying our breakfast.
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