Relationships

This Tuesday I did my first counseling session on my own. The girl I talked to was facing a very big problem which is not particular to her alone, it is a common problem faced by many nowadays: "relationships". Actually it should not be a problem, because when you give yourself to another person and receive him or her back it should be the best feeling ever. Problems appear when instead of love there is selfishness. Well, this was the problem she faced: her boyfriend. He seemed to be selfish and egocentric, only caring about himself. This women didn't want anything from him, including her baby.

What I'm trying to say is that when your relationship is not good anymore, is not making you happy and you think it's going straight to nowhere and selfishness, you should end it before something wrong, as in this case, happens and then you have something to regret.

As one friend told me before: "first, you have to love yourself. Then figure out what you want for your life and after all that, try to share it with someone who feel the same, someone who's worth it". If you fulfill all this, then having an abortion is something completely out of your mind, no matter the age, no matter the situation you're going through.