Friday, March 16, 2012

Fatherhood

The protector, the supporter, the provider, the fighter, the lover... where is he? Some girls wonder, where are the real men in this world? Why are men not acting like men?
 In today's society it is usual to see men cussing and calling girls "bitches and hoes", it is okay for a man to yell at a woman, it is normal to see a man leave his family. Men have been leaving their manhood behind.Guys seem to no longer have self-control, responsibility, and respect.


We know abortion destroys the life of an innocent child and his or her mother's soul. Do we know that it destroys a father's manhood? Today at Emily's Abortion Clinic there was a 20 year old man accompanying his 17 year old ex-girlfriend for an abortion. As we spoke to him he told us that he "did his research" and that he tried to convince her to keep the child.. yet it was still her choice. He kept going on about how he could do nothing for this child and he already did all he could and at the same time he would mention how a the kid would make his life harder and could not take care of him. The guy confessed he was very sexually active and he would get a vasectomy to not have to deal with the consequences.This is a sad thing to hear.. a person who is supposedly against murder but when it comes to his child.. he is completely okay with her choice because it is too much of a responsibility.  Abortion is the alternative to a broken condom or failed contraceptives. The value of virginity, strength, self respect and self control are thrown out the window. Abortion eliminates a father's responsibility has by violently eliminating his unborn child. He isn't going to be a father .. he already is one because the baby already exists.. the responsibility is there.. he already has that.. but abortion robs a man from his fatherhood. A woman needs a man that will protect her and love her.. not lust or use her. A real man protects his children from danger. A real man respects the body of the woman he loves and his own as well. This is how we value life. Abortion ends a life ..if it does that than it is never going to give a man responsibility or respect for anyone.
Mother Teresa once said, "Love begins at home, and it is not how much we do... but how much love we put in that action." We must put all of our love in our actions. Love begins at home.. it begins in the family.. because the family is formed by God. Abortion never brings love because it destroys a family that is already formed. So..Men.... be men, stand up for life,purity, your loved ones, and yourself. Fatherhood is precious.. treasure it because it is a crucial part of your manhood.

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