Friday, March 7, 2014

TO ALL WOMEN

The other day we had a tough situation in the office that really hit me inside. This post is addressed to all women in this world:

PLEASE, do never let anyone force you to do something you don’t wish to. You deserve more than that. Much more. You deserve to be loved, supported and respected. If somebody ever tries to discourage you, do not allow it. FIGHT. Fight for what YOU want, fight for your ideals, fight for your values, fight for yourself. You MUST fight for your happiness because you DO deserve to be happy and you DEFINITELY can get much more than that. Do NEVER just conform to what you have. Do not believe you wouldn't find better. That’s a LIE. The worst lie anybody can tell you. Even if you don’t know better, I assure you there is something out there waiting for you and it ONLY depends on you to find it. You will achieve EVERYTHING you want in life if you look for it and try hard to get it. Because you are STRONG. You are stronger than what you think. And if you don’t find it do never be scared of loneliness. Sometimes being alone is BETTER than having the wrong company. You can go through all that’s happening to you and still find a smile for the people you love. You CAN face all this shit and still be able to kick some ass. You are strong and you are smart and you are WORTH it. You are a gift for everyone having YOU in their lives. Do not believe you are alone, because you will NEVER be. God is always with you, watching your steps and we will be here, just beside you, accompanying you in all those hard situations that life puts on our way. You MUST take care of yourself, because nobody else is going to do it for you. You have to learn to be happy just for yourself and NOT because of others. What is best for you is what matters now. PLEASE, do not let anybody make you feel other way. That person does not deserve to be part of your life. And SMILE. Smile because you have reasons to smile. Do never lose your smile and you will be making others happy.


Life is hard sometimes but don’t lose the passion for living. Take control of your life. Find your own way. Enjoy every single moment God gives you. Only you know what you are capable of doing and now it’s time for you to show it. And if you happen to lose your hope and need help getting it back, remember we are here for you. Don’t forget it, you should be the one making decisions in your life. It’s YOUR life. It’s YOU.

BETHANY.ORG: ITS YOUR CHOICE BUT YOU DONT HAVE TO MAKE IT ALONE.

I have had the marvellous possibility of knowing Bethany Organization employees (Bethany.org/UChoose). Yesterday I met two of this wonderful ladies in the EMC office in Queens.
Their work is amazing, they do a really really nice job at Bethany.

Bethany is a non-profit organization which seek for the well-being of the pregnants. Their councellors are professionals in the field of help and adoption.



A good choice is always the one you make with all the information about the issue. Make sure you are not deciding anything before going throught the reasons and realities of each alternative.
A Bethany counselor will help you find your own answers and repect your decisions. No matter what you decide, their services are completely free and confidential.
Nowadays the adoption is continue being an unknown election. People understand abortion and people understand what parenting involves, but people does not know exactly what adoption is. Here there are a few questions that can help you to answer yours about adoption, if you need more information, do not hesitate in contact Bethany services (EMAIL: pregnancyhelp@bethany.org).



1. How can adoption be a good choice for my baby and me? If you are not ready to be a parent, you can still give your baby life by choosing adoption. CHOOSING LIFE IS ALWAYS THE BEST CHOICE!!
2. Can I choose the family for my baby? Yes! Most agencies have many adoptive couples who have been studied and approved. You might also want to choose a friend or someone who has been recommended to you.
3. How much will my child know about me? Regardless of the type of adoption plan, you will want to provide social and medical history for your child. If you develop an adoption plan that includes ongoing contact, your child will know about you directly, this is called: Open adoption. But there is a large range of adoptions: open, semi-open, close and confidential…


4. Can I get help with medical and living expenses while making an adoption plan? Assistance with medical and living expenses is available through many agencies. In many states, you will not need an attorney and also most agencies provide services to you at no cost. Usually those costs are paid by the adoptive family. 


Thursday, March 6, 2014

INTIMATE PARTNER VIOLENCE: WHAT IS IT/WHAT CAN I DO?

What is IPV? Is recognized as a complex process where in women feel high levels of vulnerability, powerlessness and coercion as a result of her partner´s systematic employment of physical, sexual, psychological and/or moral force.
Violence not only causes physical injury but also injured the social, psychological, spiritual and emotional well-being of the victim.
Each year in USA, IPV results in an estimated 1200 deaths and 2 million injuries among women (Black&Breiding 2005).
Pregnancy is a very vulnerable time for women in abusive relationships as the violence often begins or escalates during this time.



How common is pressure to abort? Pressure to abort can take a wide range of forms. The most common responses of women are:
-          My partner told me the decision was mine, but I knew he wanted me to terminate.
-          I aborted my child, because I knew my partner wanted me to.
-          I did not want to put my partner through a pregnancy he was not ready to deal with.
-          My partner said if I carried to term, he would not take an active role in the child´s life.
-          My partner influenced me to abort by using logical arguments such as Wouldn´t it be better to wait and have a baby when we´re really ready and able to love our child?
-          I aborted my child because I was afraid I would lose my partner if I did not.
-          My partner was furious about the pregnancy and said I had no choice but to abort.
-          My partner said he would physically hurt me if I did not terminate my pregnancy.
There is a strong necessity of effective IVP screening from the victims and from the health-care providers, who are likely to be the first professional contact for the victims.
In case you are thinking you could be a victim of violence, please, ask yourself “the SAFE QUESTIONS”, and keep in touch with a professional who can help you.



The SAFE questions:
-          S: Stress and safety: do you feel safe in your relationship?
-          A: Afraid or abused: has your partner ever threatened/abused you or your children?
-          F: Friends and family: if you were hurt, would your friends or family know? Would they be able to help you?
-          E: Emergency plan: do you have a safe place to go in an emergency? Do you need help in locating a shelter? Would you like to talk to a counselor about this?

We care about you, we can help you. 

Pope Francis talking about the number of abortions in Spain

El papa Francisco aseguró haberse “quedado helado” cuando los obispos españoles, presentes en la sede papal en visita Ad Limina, le informaron del número de abortos que se producen en España, según informó Radio Vaticano.



 “Los obispos españoles me decían recién la cantidad de abortos, ¡el número! ¡Yo me quedé helado! ¿No? Ellos tienen ahí los censos de eso, más o menos”, afirmó el pontífice.
Francisco hizo el comentario improvisado, recogido en la web de Radio Vaticano, durante su alocución a los miembros de la Pontificia Comisión para América Latina y en un contexto más amplio en el que criticó el materialismo imperante en la sociedad actual.
“Hoy día, por la economía que se ha implantado en el mundo, en el centro está el dios dinero y no la persona humana, y todo lo demás se ordena, y lo que no cabe en ese orden, se descarta, ¿no? Y se descartan los chicos que sobran, que molestan o que no conviene que vengan”, aseveró.
El discurso del Papa se produjo tras su primer encuentro con los obispos españoles, quienes, durante esta semana y hasta el lunes, están llevando a cabo una serie de visitas a la sede apostólica con el objetivo de informar al pontífice sobre el estado de sus respectivas diócesis.
Los prelados españoles que se reunieron ayer con Francisco fueron los pertenecientes a las provincias eclesiásticas de Madrid y Valencia, encabezados por sus respectivos arzobispos, Antonio María Rouco Varela y Carlos Osoro.

Tuesday, March 4, 2014

First-time mother

Last week I was in the EMC Brooklyn clinic. It was a very cold morning and many women came to us searching for help. Most of them came to get a sonogram in order to be able to watch and hear their babies. The sonogram makes possible knowing if everything is fine during the pregnancy or if the baby is healthy. This morning between all those young women willing to bring to the world it came a very kind Belgian woman. She was in New York only for a few months and now that she got pregnant the planned to stay in the City. She heard about us from a friend of her. She told her that we provide free services for expectant mothers and she came to us gladly. She was very excited about the idea of being a mother, because it was her first child she has; and once she was watching her baby moving inside of her, this image drove her to tears. It was a very emotive picture seeing how a mother cried of joy watching her preborn son.

 

Rearranging the Bronx Office!

Today we spent the whole day cleaning and rearranging the Bronx Office for all of you guys. Linda started her fist day here very powerful and always full of energy. She was really excited about getting the place to make you feel home and I personally think we have made it! Now it is all bright and clean with lot of space for all of you needing counselling, a little chat or just a hug...

(Even better if you see it with your eyes)

Feel all of you welcome anytime!


WHAT THE IMPORTANT IS

To do this job the best we can, it is neccesary to keep our souls in peace and close to God. Every day we see people in serious problems and involve in really hard situations. We have to try to help them the best way we can and with the more love we can, and God is the one who provides this amount of love, this free love, to love everybody.



God is one of the best examples of living a hard situation without losing confidence and peace. We had to deal with a lot of problems in His life, and his mother, the Blessed Virgin Mary was pregnant with 17 years old, and she was alone with his husband Joseph.
For these reasons, we usually pray and attend to mass.
Last Saturday we went to an amazing Holy Hour in a very beautiful church called Our Lady of Good counsel, in Manhattan. There were a lot of young people praying. We prayed also for the women who are in trouble and for all the kids who are dying in abortion procedures. The prayer is a very powerful instrument to help others.




After the prayers, we could have the chance to go for a country concert near the church by a religious group of music. Superb!!!

Saturday, March 1, 2014

Calling the Holy Spirit



It is amazing how powerful prayer for counseling women in crisis is. Through my four week counseling in New York City prayer has been the number one tool. Just today a women came to the center determent to abort. I explain what is our center was about, the dangerous of abortion and her other options but she was still asking about abortion. At that moment I called the Holy Spirit since I didn't know what else to say. Right after I call the Holy Spirit I started to talk about how women after an abortion suffer from depression, drug abuse, anxiety and panic attacks and so forth. She immediately looked at me and stated to tell me about her previous abortion. We had a full conversation about post abortion and told her she is not alone. I have her some local support reference to get help.
I knew that with out the Holy Spirit I would of not thought of taking about post abortion because my mind was just focusing on talking about talking about the life of her baby in her womb. The Holy Spirit knew that talking about her pain of her previous abortion will help her think about the life of this new blessing. The mother left thinking and leaning more into parenting this child. We just need to pray that this need information and support will lead her to giving life to her unborn child.


 

The Fetus Rights in Islam

I was very shocked this week about my first day and so I kept investigating. It is amazing how different religions can have such a similar way of understanding life sometimes.

I would like to share with you this article written by Dr. Nazmy Khalil Abou El Atta (Translated by Marwa Hassan and Revised By Magdy Abd Al-Shafy).



The Fetus Rights in Islam


Calls for human rights resound in the whole world with a serious and false accusation that Islam comes to violate such rights. In a matter of fact, this is entirely repudiated by Islam and Muslims as well.
Accordingly, we believe that it is our duty, as Muslims, to defend ourselves and our Islam by illustrating few established facts in our true religion to show how Islam preserve rights, whether these rights relating to living organisms or non-living things as Islam consider both divine . We will illustrate this by means of evidence and we will start by figuring out what rights Islam provided for the fetus.
1-   The right of having known and contracted lineage:
One of the simplest fetus rights is to have one known lineage. Islam put some regulations and restrictions to the sexual relationships and bound it to marriage. Further, marriage is legislated by Islam and it was stated as the only way for people to procreate and have children
God says: in this concern what means “your wives are as a tilth unto you" , that is to say He made the womb like a soil where the sperm is the seed that a husband cultivates.
To have a true marriage contract, witnesses are provided. That is to say when two Muslim Couple is getting married, it is necessary for the other Muslims to witness such marriage contract and thus protecting the rights of the fetus to have two known and married parents.
To announce marriage, is another requirement for a true marriage contract as by this act Islam differentiates between illegitimate sexual relationships and marriage. Therefore the act of announcement means letting the majority to learn that those two people bound by the sacred bond of marriage.
  Islam prescribed a period of waiting for the wife, Iddat, in order to make sure that her womb is free and she is not pregnant of her ex-husband. Accordingly, this protects the fetus rights to know who his father is and save any confusion in this regard.
Islam absolutely banned the believers to perform the act of adultery or fornication as God dictates in Sura El Nour ( Nour chapter in the Holy Quran)
"Let no man guilty of adultery or fornication marry any but a woman similarly guilty, or an unbeliever: nor let any but such a man or an unbeliever marry such a woman: to the believers such a thing is forbidden. " (Sura El Nure- verse 3)
Otherwise, the punishment of those who do not conform to the dictations of God and Islam should be punished in public in order to let the other Muslims witness that as God says "and let a pretty of the believers witness their punishment" ( Sura El Nure – Verse 2 )   in order to be deterrent .
Accordingly, Islam comes to protect the fetus right to have a known linage and origin. However, this right is not preserved in those communities which allow different forms of unregulated behaviors as far as the relationship between man and woman is concerned, such as adultery, deceit, sex offences and having babies without the bond of marriage, in other words, lovechildren.
2-     the right to have a healthy and chaste womb environment
Womb is the first environment that fetus touches and this is where it stays to grow. It is figured more likely as a soil where the sperm is cultivated. Islam has granted this soil some sort of sanctity as it bounds the sexual relationship to marriage where only the husband can sow the seed in order to reap the harvest. Islam banned sex offences for a higher and virtuous reason; that is to keep such soil healthy and chaste rather than exhausted or injured...
  When diseases occur due to sex offences the first organ to be affected is the womb of the woman. This is why Islam banned adultery and fornications as through improper sexual relationships venereal diseases easily transmit. Islam has also banned alcoholic drinks, drugs and eating spoiled food as His Almighty says "Eat of the good things we have provided for you"
  Islam has also banned eating dead bodies of animals or birds, eating swine's meat (pork) or drinking blood. Further, ill-gotten food is strictly forbidden. Avoiding all these things ensure a healthy womb environment
Islam dictated some regulations and restrictions concerning the relationship between man and woman. Further, it forbids Muslim women to interact with strange men for women's sake and to keep them away from sick and evil people. Thus that would provide protection for fetus and secure chaste womb.
3-  The right to have a strong genetic origin
from the scientific point of view; fetus is formed as a result of integration in the hereditary substance, in other words chromosomes, of both man and woman, where these chromosomes carry the genetic characteristics of the child. In a matter of fact, marriage which is exclusive to the relatives of one's family is not favorable; this is according to the prophetic tradition, Muhammad (PBUH), " marrying a non-relative is favored than marrying a relative one"…narrated   by El Bukhary. The Hadeeth advises people not to get married to a relative spouse as this results in deformed kids. Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) advises those who wishes to get married, to choose their wives carefully in order to make sure that she free form any deformity, and thus he assures that he will be having healthy and deformity free kids.
4-   The right to have a true faith
Marriage is the most intimate relationship that combines spiritual harmony with physical link. This is a vital matter that affects both parties and influences their potentiality of choice to a great extent. The main aim of both parties is to seek for the right and good partner rather than an unbeliever! God says " do not marry unbelieving women (idolaters) until they believe. A slave woman who believes is better than an unbelieving woman, even though she allures you"( Sura Bakara – verse 221)
When God dictates that Muslims are to be married to believers and never to unbelievers, was to ensure a true faith and powerful religion to the coming children and not to be subjected to the whims of an unbelieving father or mother.
5- The right to get into heaven
Islam maintains the right of fetus to get into heaven and to stay away from Hell as God says " O you who believe! Save yourselves and your families from fire" . A believing father raises his children on virtues and the dictations of Islam which works as a firewall against tracing the devil's track. Thus Islam ensures religious family for fetus and a believing social background.
6- The right of equality with other fetuses
Islam stipulated that it is only He, God ,the Almighty, Who grants people baby boys or girls. So, it is up to God only to determine the fetus sex, whether it is a boy or a girl. In other words, fetus is helpless when the matter of sex is concerned and this makes all fetuses equal, girls and boys.
7- The right to have a normal social life
Islam prescribed that both parties, the husband and the wife, shall be socially equivalent as this ensures a normal and social environment for the coming children, where no way that one of the parents act superciliously. As a matte of fact, this lessens the potentiality of social discord and family disunity as it enhances the social life of families and the psychological needs.
8- The right to maintain fetus life
The law of Islam has provided the right of fetus to live and prohibited any attempt of killing him and further abortion is legislated in few established situations which are determined by physicians, Islam legists together with sociologists. In Islam, violators are punished equally, whether it is the father, the mother, or some one else... as the Islamic law dictates that the violator is to be deprived from inheritance in case of getting rid of fetus to capture his  share in the inheritance. Accordingly, the right of fetus to live is secured by Islam.
Islam legists agreed unanimously on prohibiting abortion and they resorted to the fact that God granted life to such lifeless thing and only He who has the power to take it back. Physicians and embryologists agreed that fetus is a living organism even when it is still a sperm and this is a convincing reason, from the scientific point of view, for not depriving such a helpless creature form the divine right of life.
9- The right to enjoy health life within womb
In Islam, the responsibility of fetus is resorted to parents as it is to be considered one of their duties, in other words subjects, in life " You are all guardians and each one of you is responsible for his own subjects", or that is to say " good shepherd is responsible for his own sheep" . Islam stipulated that the husband shall spend on his pregnant wife and socially protect her. This provides the right of fetus to enjoy secure, and serenity and good food " Let the women live (in Iddate) in the same style as ye live, according to your means: annoy them not, so as to restrict them. And if they carry (life in their wombs), then spend (your substance on them until they deliver their burden…" (Sura Talak – verse 6)
Accordingly, in Islam the husband is entitled to pay all the expenses of his pregnant wife after divorce, including food, housing, clothing, social protection, psychological support and medicines. This protects fetus against malnutrition and psychological illness. Islam protected women as well in a way that it allowed them to work outdoors only under admissible necessity.
10- Maintaining fetus good and benefit
For fetus sake, Islamic law gives the permission to the pregnant mother to eat in Ramadan and not to fast. (Prophet Muhammad, PBUH, exempted pregnant or suckling mothers from fasting) narrated by Termezi in the Fasting section.
11- Temporary hold of penalties for the pregnant
Islamic Law stipulated the delay of executing penalties on the pregnant adulterer till delivery, as what was dictated by Prophet Muhammad, PBUH, to a pregnant adulterer in an incident (you may go till your childbirth). Thus Islam comes to absolve fetus from the guilt of his mother. 
12- Maintaining fetus's financial rights
Islam preserves the right of fetus in inheritance in case if it is born live. Islam legists stated that fetus is to be counted within the total of inheritors and his share should be preserved till childbirth. In case if it is born live, his assigned share should be separated.   In Islam, patrimony is divided on the basis of holding back the major part for the sake of such fetus, and further the legacy for the fetus is considered true and correct.

13-Honorable Islamic precedence
What we have already mentioned is a small number of rights out of the large number of rights for the fetus in Islam which wad not introduced to the modern civilization until 1959, when the committee of child's rights – which is affiliated to the General Society of the United Nations – stated that both mother and baby shall get the utmost care and protection especially before delivery. In 1966 the United Nations approved on providing special care for pregnant women before and after delivery as well and granting them paid vacations.

Friday, February 28, 2014

Praying the rosary

Last Saturday I went to Dr. Emily’s clinic. I stayed out in front of the building praying and asking God for saving the lives of those poor babies that were going to die. Praying for those who were meant to lose the opportunity of having what is a right to every human being. I asked God to illuminate those poor girls, and guide them into his way. I prayed for those poor girls that were only afraid and lost, they just need our support and our help in order to not forgetting that God loves them. 


Among them there are girls too young to face the difficult situations that they are passing through, in some cases they just need a voice that tells them that everything is going to be alright. A voice that tells them that they will be able to raise their children and form a family. I focus all my praying on the girls, and I hope that God almighty can change their minds. 


Thursday, February 27, 2014

The Call We all Hope for

One important part of counseling is to follow up to see how this ladies are doing or on many cases to see what decision they had made. I had contact few and many I had left messages in hope they will call me back.
I pray everyday that they choose life even though they don't call me but it makes my day when they do call me. Recently this happen to me I got a call from a young women that I didn't think she was going to call me back. Well it was a text saying that she was going trough a lot of things but she was having her baby. She was very happy that we were there for her and I was even more happy that she choose life. 

Un emotivo vídeo muestra a un bebé que no quiere separarse de su madre al nacer


Tuesday, February 25, 2014

First Day - Family, Culture, Religion

My first day at the EMC Bronx office. First girl arriving around 10:30 am with her boyfriend. She is not that young but she is tiny and very sweet. I look at her but I am not sure were she is coming from. She is very polite, she has positively finished her studies. She seems to be smart and to have her feet on the ground. She is nervous, hen skin, and her eyes moving quickly from the floor to the woman that is supposed to counsel her. The first thing she says when she sits down on the chair of that cold room is she came to us looking for counseling. Then she starts answering carefully all our questions trying not to show ho
w afraid she is and paying attention to every single word she is been told.

She is in love. She has been dating her boyfriend for a long time now and she has no doubt he is the right person for her. She knows she is pregnant. They were using protection, unfortunately it broke and she had to go for plan B. However, she has been part of that 1% ineffectiveness. After the pregnancy test, the counselor calculated an approximate due date. She is now 6 weeks pregnant. She is considering the abortion pill but still wants to listen to any other alternative. She refuses to give the baby in adoption. 9 months taking care of a vulnerable life in order to give it away later on is something she would not be able to stand. But there is something else. The counselor talks with her about the fetus and shows her a picture of its current stage of development. She burst into tears asking herself "why she has to do this". As I said, there is something else.

Sometimes, men do not support women. Sometimes, they do not enjoy stability or have financial problems but this was not the case. Both have gone to college. They were both working and studying. She is living with her parents and so is him. They would have to make an effort and move together and have the baby as a family but still that was not the problem. Finally she said very cautiously was she had in mind all that time since she first arrived an hour before. "My father would kill me, you do not understand". She had been raised within a Muslim family, very conservative,coming from a very different culture. She came here very young, she has grown as any other American and always standing in the line that separates such different two cultures. She understood her parents opinion, believes and values as no one that has not been raised with them could but she could not help feeling herself very far from her roots now.

She repeated once and again that we really did not understand her. And certainly we really do not. Pre-marital sex is absolutely forbidden in Islam. Pre-marital sex is a sin punishable by the Islamic court.
If an unmarried man and an unmarried woman are found guilty of fornication in an Islamic court, their punishment will be as the following: The woman and the man who fornicate scourge each of them a hundred whips; and in the matter of God s religion, let no tenderness for them seize you if you believe in God and the Last Day; and let a party of the believers witness their punishment. (24:2) If the unmarried man or woman commit fornication more than once, then they will be punished three times by hundred wipes, and if they are proven guilty for the fourth time, then they will be put to death. (See the chapter on "hudud" in Sharaya' and Sharh Lum'a also a;-Khu'i, Takmilah, p. 37-8) (As for adultery, its punishment is even more severe because married persons have no excuse, whatsoever, to commit adultery. The shari'ah says that married persons guilty of adultery should be stoned to death.) 
The truth is that, even if it is hard to believe, there are some cultures, specially Muslim people around the world, who consider that having their daughters having a baby outside marriage would be worse than having them killed before they do so. The embarrassment can be so humiliating for the family's honor, that the same family repudiates that woman or even kills her as a punishment for her sin. Families allowing such behavior would not be consider respectable anymore.

I cannot forget the sorrowfulness and the pain in her eyes. She was desperately crying for a solution, for an alternative. She wanted to keep her baby, she wanted to have a family. She wanted to save that life and she was ready for everything coming. She was just too scared and too alone to face it. She needed some time. But if that baby comes to the world, even if she has to raise him or her on her own, she will never again be alone. Because she would have all that love coming from the only person who really loves her unconditionally. Her baby. It is dramatic that still nowadays religion, customs, culture and even family can separate a mother from her child and even be the reason why she would be considering sacrificing a life.


Fear should never be there. We are here to help you. You are never alone. God will find you.

Monday, February 24, 2014

Medical Conference WDC

On the 22nd february, in Washington DC took place the Matthew Bulfin Educational Conference. One of the most known conferences for Prolife OBGYN doctors and medical students.
It was a busy conference, with talks the whole day from 9am to 5pm.
It was amazing to see so many Pro-life people sharing their knowledge in order to help pro-life causes and investing time in being more useful in this area.


Different professionals gave speeches about a lot of topics related to the reality of the abortion clinics, truly reasons of abortion, prenatal care, natural methods for contraception and conception, care of kids with learn difficulties.
At the end of the conference, we met wonderful physicians and medical students who really care about life.
I have learnt a lot from them, not only data but also about their beautiful souls.


What a long weekend

This weekend has been a long one.
We went to Washington DC. EMC is trying to open one big pregnancy center in this city and we need support.

 Sunday mass near Washington DC


It is very important for EMC to have big supporters. Pro-life people who wants help us to help mothers in their pregnancy. Good people who think how important a life is, even in the womb of the mother. Good people who want to help mother to keep their babies. Good people who want to explain mother what a planned parenthood really is, what they do, what are the risks of the abortion procedures (no one have told them ever).
We need good people who believe that a better world is possible, and help us to make it true.
We hope the EMC center in Washington DC could be a reality in a short time.

 Interns in Mount Vernon, near Washington DC

Friday, February 21, 2014

Las Fases del Embarazo en vídeo, mes a mes



Esta es la historia de una jovencita de 16 años que vivía en el Bronx con sus padres ella era hija única y los padres la complacían en todo. Ella tenía un novio de 18 años sin trabajo ni estudio los padres de esta chica no sabían que ella tenía novio ella se la pasaba a escondidas con el sin que sus padres se dieran cuenta.
 Un día el novio le empieza a decir a la chica que quiere tener relaciones con ella y ella se empieza a negar y ahí es cuando actúa el chico y empieza a convencerla diciéndole que no le va a pasar y que si tal vez quedara embarazada que él se hacía cargo del bebe y se casaría con ella de tanto pensar a chica acepta y al final termina convenciéndola y tienen relaciones sexuales.
Unos días después ella se entera de que está embarazada y corre a contarle al chico pero él la rechaza y le dice que ya no se va hacer cargo del bebe y se marcha.
Ella decepcionada por la reacción de su novio y molesta con ella misma por haber confiado en el ella solo piensa en abortar ese bebe no quiere tenerlo ella decide abortar al bebe y una vez que lo aborta se da cuenta de que en realidad llevaba en su vientre 2 pequeños mellizos pero ya era demasiado tarde ella abatida solo se queda con la culpa y el remordimiento de que mato no una sino 2 vidas y que eran parte de ella.

A great surprise

A Thursday after noon a couple came in to the office right before we were going to close.  We greet them, told them to have a seat and fill out our intake sheet. For us it was a different since normally the girls come by them selves but it was a great opportunity to talk to them both. They were here for an abortion and after we talked to them they were undecided. We gave them the option of going to Brooklyn Friday or Queens office  Monday for a sonogram. They left the office with a lot think about.

Monday came and surprise she came for sonogram. I was very happy. The sonogram was perform she got to see her baby. And just a bit later she saw her baby, she told us "I am very happy and we are going to parent". Giving them the option of a sonogram makes a difference.


 

Tuesday, February 18, 2014

What is going on?...An inside job

Lets talk about the reality of Planned Parenthood and Abortion clinics.
This is a very lucrative bussines, so they made a lot of fraude to get more money. This clinics do not follow the law, this video can demonstrate a bit of what is happening inside one of the clinics.
Even the doctors who practice the abortions, dont want to see the death babies. Every human being can tell that what they are doing is something wrong, so they dont like to see the results of the surgery.

Please, note that this video has hard scenes.

http://rescatadoresjp.wordpress.com/2012/02/10/una-camara-oculta-se-infiltra-en-la-clinica-el-bosque-de-madrid/

Sunday, February 16, 2014

THE BABY ADVENTURE #3

Our last trimester...There we go!!

6th Month: 21-24 weeks
He/She grows rapidly in size and strength while her lung become more developed. 70% of babies born between 22 and 26 weeks lived past age one, thanks to modern medicine.



7th Month: 25-28 weeks
The baby can now recognize her mother´s voice. She exercises by stretching and kicking as she grows even bigger. She/He uses the senses of HEARING, TOUCH and TASTE and can even look around with OPEN EYES at her watery home.



8th Month: 29-32 weeks
The skin of the baby begins to thicken, with a layer of fat stored underneath for insulation and nourishment. Though movement is limited, due to cramped quarters, the baby´s kicks are stronger and mom may be able to feel an elbow or heel against her abdomen.



9th Month: 33-36 weeks
Gaining one half pound per week, the baby is getting ready for birth. The bones in her/his head are soft and flexible to more easily mold for the journey down the birth canal. 90% of a person´s development happens in the womb.



and...HELLO SWEETY!! WELCOME!!


THE BABY ADVENTURE #2

Continuing with our journey: The journey of life --> Watch out!! A miracle is happening in you girl!!! Do not fear! We are with you.

2nd Month: 5-8 weeks
By six weeks BRAIN WAVES can be detected by electroencephalogram. The baby begins to swallow amniotic fluid sometimes have been seen hiccupping.
STOMACH and KIDNEYS begin to function. FINGERS and TOES are developing and at 7weeks the CHEST and ABDOMEN are fully formed.

5weeks embryo


3rd Month: 9-12 weeks
The baby is very active even though mom cannot feel movement yet. He/she now sleeps, awakens and exercises the muscles.
The gender can be visually determined.



4th Month: 13-16 weeks
By the end of the 4th month the baby is 8-10 inches in length and weight about one-half pound. The EARS are functioning and can hear HER MOTHER´S HEARTBEAT, as well as external noises.
LIFESAVING surgery has been performed on babies at this age.

5th Month: 17-20 weeks
Thumb-sucking has been observed during the fifth month. 

THE BABY ADVENTURE #1

We are going through a marvellous journey. The journey of life. The human life is a mistery, which contain the best essence of the whole world. The women should know about what the baby looks like in each step of the pregnancy. We have to be inform because sometimes people would like to confuse us in order to make one decision or another.

Day 1: Fertilization
The sperm joins with the egg to form one cell. This complex cell contains and IS now a NEW LIFE itself.



1st Month: 1-4 weeks
The first cell divides in 2, and continues the division during the travel down the fallopian tube to the uterus. More than 500 cells are present when this embryo reaches the uterus.
In first month foundations of the BRAIN, SPINAL CORD and NERVOUS SYSTEM are already established and byy day 21 the HEART begins to beat. MUSCLES are forming and ARMS, LEGS, EYES and EARS have begin to show.


Let it snow...

Ayer fue un dia para recordar.
En la ciudad de New York una tremenda ola de frio, nieve y lluvia nos inundó hace 3 días.
Nos levantamos y vimos que había una espesa capa de nieve que cubría toda la ciudad. Los servicios de transporte de la ciudad estaban colapsados y mucha gente no acudió a trabajar. Pero los voluntarios de EMC nos fuimos a las oficinas como todos los días por si acudían chicas que necesitaran nuestra ayuda.
En un primer momento todo estuvo tranquilo, pero al final del día habían venido SIETE CHICAS en busca de ayuda!!!


Mereció mucho la pena haber ido a trabajar a pesar del mal tiempo, por haber podido ayudar a esas 7 chicas. Quedarse embarazada asusta, y más aun si hay algún problema externo: económico, no apoyo familiar, vergüenza de contarlo, el miedo de lo inesperado...pero estamos aquí para hacerte sentir que no estás sola en este camino, no estás sola con tu embarazo, que podemos buscar alternativas y soluciones.
Eso es lo que les dijimos a esas 7chicas que vinieron en todo este dia, y todas ellas cambiaron de opinión respecto a su embarazo; volverán a nuestras oficinas para que las sigamos ayudando a seguir adelante.
Well done!!

Saturday, February 15, 2014

RU -486

My experience with the girls that I have counsel and have consider abortions, have mention that they will like to take "Pill" meaning the RU-486. Most of this don't have a clue of what this "pill" really is. They just think that taking a "pill" will solve the problem. But once a start talking about RU-486 I could see that they don't think the same any more.

I start to tell them that the "pill" is a synthetic steroid drug called mifepristone and that it cuts off nourishment to the baby so that the baby starves to death. Many girls don't realize that is a baby already. I also tell them that is not safe and that they may have painful contractions, nausea, vomiting, pelvic pain and that they may bleed from 9 to 40 days.

Some have change there mind and some will just not react to the information but all I know that I planted the seed.


 

Friday, February 14, 2014